5 Things that are Needed for a Friendship to Grow

Ever met someone who you thought was super cool and could see a real friendship growing between you two but somehow, overtime, the relationship just fell apart? Or maybe, you encountered someone you really connected with and had a multitude of things in common but the spark of friendship amongst the both of you died out?

Sometimes, it can be hard to build and maintain a real friendship. Going through the process of meeting someone new, growing that relationship, and upholding it takes quite a bit of dedication and time… which can be limited for some people. But unless you aren’t willing to put in that time and dedication, the friendship is most likely just going to wither away like a dying flower.

Ultimately, there are certain things that need to be in place for a true friendship to grow.

Commitment. Just like a romantic relationship with a significant other, a real friendship between two friends takes time and perseverance in order for it to thrive. You can’t just come and go whenever you please; your relationship with a friend is not a convenience store. Be committed.

Trust. Unlike a one-way street, trust goes both ways between two people. For a real relationship to grow between friends, mutual trust needs to be present. I mean, how can you sincerely be there for one another when you might not even trust each other? It’s just not possible. Mutual trust is a hard thing to come by these days and with it being so sparse, it’s a vital part of a blossoming friendship.

Communication. As they always say, communication is key… for both romantic relationships and friendships. For real though, have you ever had a friend who rarely spoke to you and, overtime, the two of you just slowly drifted apart? It’s disheartening but that’s what happens. To keep a friendship alive and well, honest and real communication needs to be there. All it takes is sending a short text asking about him or her once in a while. Keeping them updated and letting them know you’re truly interested in what’s happening in their lives will let them know you care and are still there.

Support. There’s nothing better or more rewarding than having a friend who gives you undying support. Whether it be if you just got a new job or a new boyfriend/girlfriend, a friend who 100% supports you through every decision is life is a friend you’re going to want to keep around. Friends who lift each other up when one is down are friends who stick together.

Some fun. While the other four things above are a bit more serious, every friendship needs some fun. Haven’t you heard that laughter is one of the best medicines? And it’s no lie! Laughter has such a positive effect on each and every one of us; it’s a vital part of life. When you laugh with friends, it shows you enjoy each others company! A friend you can laugh with is a friend who makes life better.

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